Couples Counselling

Couples come in with various situations and outcomes.I listen from both your perspectives,  I encourage you both to look at  the relationship you wish to create. I help you both to find your own voice, and invite you both to share that with each other, I do this by slowing things down, and introducing some new skills. Whatever has brought you in to couples counselling, I look to, build up trust between you both, enabling you to open up and understand each other's perspective. This enables you both to look at difficult topics whilst building resilience to stand the tension. This allows you both to have difficult conversations and find a way in which you wish to move forward given your own  individual circumstances. I work with but not limited to, divorce, fractures, relationship problems, resentments, childhood trauma, attachment theory, conflict avoidance, high intensity conflicts, coercive control, abuse, desire, postnatal depression, miscarriage, baby loss, loss and grief.  

Individuals Counselling

I'm here to listen, to see you, to witness your story, together we slowly look at the environment, situation or circumstances encouraging you to find your voice, This sets us on a path that enables you to make your own choices, knowing what has influences you and how you wish to move forward enabling you to  honour yourself within any given situation. This is a journey of empowerment and can provide life changing outcomes.

Trauma

As a Gestalt therapist I work with different parts of self. I do this by listening to different parts of you by using  Chairwork to Process Traumatic Memories, Working with Difficult Coping Modes and Problematic Behaviors, Grief and Loss, Addressing Experiences of Abuse Using Confrontational Dialogues, and Practicing Chairwork Teletherapy.

Training, Qualifications & Experience

Qualifications

  • Accredited Member of the BACP (Accred) 

  • FdSc Counselling

  • Level 1 Counselling Training with Complete Couples

  • Level 2 Counselling Training with Complete Couples 

Experience

Experience working with Couples, Individuals in all areas of my specialisations. Volunteering experience with the Fountain Centre over a number of years.

Current Professional Development

  • Couples Institute Developmental Model

  • Pyschosexual - NAOS PG Certification

Appointments

I can offer flexible appointments, including daytimes, evenings and weekends. 

In Person

I offer in-person counselling at my practice in the centre of Pirbright village. Please contact me to make an appointment as soon as possible to ensure a space. 

Online

Using secure video conferencing.

I work online using platforms that best suits you such as video based Zoom and WhatsApp or telephone which are all secure and confidential.

Who I am

Hello, my name is Debbie. I am a qualified and experienced Couples and Individual counsellor and psychotherapist. I am an Accredited Member of the  British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

Key Areas of specialisation include;-

Abuse, Abortion, Anxiety, Abusive Relationships, Anger, Coercive Control, Control, Depression, Desire, Social Anxiety, Feeling Sad, Sadness, Low Self Esteem, Family issues, Low Confidence, Stress, Trauma, Affairs and Betrayal, Separation and Divorce, Bereavement, Loneliness, Emotional abuse, Sexuality, Sexual Desire, Sex, Relationship, Life changing events, Loss, Death, Grief, Domestic Violence and Couples Counselling - Relationship Issues, Struggling to Relate, Get Close, Affairs, Betrayal, Communication and Separation.  

Humanistic therapy, Person Centred Therapy. Existential Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Couples Institute Developmental Model. 

Contact Me

Please either call me directly on (07399) 5397908 or

complete the adjacent form and I will be in touch shortly.